Words from Guidance for You
Words from Guidance for You
The dictionary defines validation as ‘ to express understanding and acceptance of another.’ Have you ever noticed that some people in a group, or singly, are natural validators of others? What a wonderful trait this is and how we like to be around those who do this. This is a trait that can be developed and done without being cloying or superficial if done from the heart. It can be real, and felt as real to others.
Validation can be a simple acknowledgement that someone has come in or joined, there. A simple smile and a ‘ Hello, John,’ or whomever, says and implies to that one, ‘I know you and I welcome you and you matter.’ Any extension of caring and warmth, of inclusion, is meaningful in its outcome. It doesn’t make a difference whether you see the outcome right there or not. The words have ‘set the tone’ for interaction between you and this other, who is really a part of the Oneness, whether aware of it or not — One with you, and with the Wholeness of our Source.
By ‘setting the tone,’ we are creating an open and inviting space for interaction to continue. From the ‘get go,’ remember that it is not just you interacting with this one, it is you and Me, as you have now, in the quiet within and unbeknownst to the other, joined with Me, there. You have quietly asked for ‘not my will, but Thy will be done, Lord. Let the words and interaction with this one come from you, from living love.’
Now what comes forth may have nothing to do with spirituality as such, but they will be words or actions that validate that one, and because I am joining you from the transcendent, the words may be that which mean something more to that one than you could ever know. I see the ‘big picture’ for that one. Don’t try to be anything other than who you are from the place of our joining. Just be yourself joined with Me. Natural you, normal you, with love leading the way. The weather, the news, what’s happening with you, with him or her — anything could be the topic—so don’t think I only give you ‘holy phrases’ to say.
What comes forth will always be validating though, and never filled with judgments or negativity. Remember, we are talking about the powerful transforming action of the energy of living love pouring forth, so let it flow there, dear one, let it flow! As you validate, so will you be validated. I love you and I validate you mightily, always. You will be that point of light right where you are, the Christ Consciousness coming through you. Never alone, dear one, truly never alone.
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May 3, 2019